Meet Lydie Uwantege, an inspiring author who has compiled her favorite poems into an anthology titled “A Melody in Words.” Her journey from battling self-esteem issues to becoming a published author is a testament to resilience and determination. In this interview, Lydie shares the inspiration behind her book, the challenges she faced, and the valuable lessons she’s learned along the way. Join us as we delve into her creative process, cultural influences, and upcoming projects, offering insights and encouragement for aspiring writers and creatives alike.
What inspired you to compile your favorite poems into an anthology? Were there specific life experiences that influenced your selection?
What inspired me was the thought or the hope that my story could benefit somebody else. That my story could encourage, build somebody else. I have been writing since I was a teenager and some of the pieces that are part of the book.
Very much so! The entire book is about life experiences. One in particular I would mention is my struggle with self esteem that I experienced when I was a teenager. I used to compare myself a lot, worried that since I was not as talented as some, or as intelligent as others, I had nothing to contribute. It caused a lot of anxiety. The piece “Mirror Mirror” is all about my struggle with self esteem, comparison, and the anxiety that ensued which I eventually overcame. At least, to a certain extent. To date, I have learned to navigate it.
Could you share some of the struggles or challenges you faced while working on this project? How did you overcome them?
The number challenge was an internal one. There was a nagging self doubt and anxiety of how the book would be perceived. If it was even as worthy or useful as I thought.
Then the publishing part of course. It’s not as straightforward to find a publisher, let alone one that would want to publish a new author.
How did I overcome it?
In one sentence: I shot my shot 🙂 I tried, and kept on trying. I knocked on many doors, did some research, and asked for help from my friends and my community. Eventually, I found a way. For one, I overcame my fear to release the book, and I was able to put the book up via Amazon to reach a wide community.
“A Melody in Words” aims to inspire, encourage, and uplift readers. Can you share a personal story or moment that you hope will resonate deeply with your audience?
Not to be repetitive, but one of the stories I would share that led to writing the book is my long journey of struggling with self esteem.
I never thought I was good enough, every one else was better. I did not think that my voice or what I had to say was good enough to be valuable enough for anyone to pay attention.
Writing the book wasn’t any different. I second guessed myself so many times but constantly asked myself if i was to put a book out there, if it was interesting enough for anyone to read it.
When I finally overcame my fears, I thought what better way to help somebody else, perhaps struggling with the same. Pull them out of the pit fears imposed by society or circumstances. And tell them, there is a “light” on the other end.
As an author and creative individual, what are some valuable lessons you’ve learned along the way? How have these lessons shaped your approach to writing and life in general?
One of the many things that I Have had to tell myself is that “I am able” and “I am Worthy”. To quote one of the pieces, “I have a voice, and it matters” I have something to bring to the table. I can add value. Creatively, I may not have the same exact style as another but I have a unique style and it’s not necessarily less than. And as I do believe in myself and overcome my fears, I have a unique opportunity to lift up somebody else.
What advice would you give to aspiring writers or anyone embarking on a creative endeavour? How can they stay motivated and overcome obstacles?
Start. If it doesn’t work out the first time as expected. Learn from it and keep trying. Believe in yourself and don’t give up.
How has your background and cultural heritage influenced your writing style and the themes you explore in your work?
I would say my family cultivated a love of reading at a young age and that influenced me.
I purposefully included a piece of my Rwandan heritage in the book, though not too much so as not to alienate an audience who is not necessarily from Rwanda. However, I did want to raise that curiosity in the audience, and perhaps it would lead to some wanting to know about Rwanda. Or better yet “Visit Rwanda” 🙂
Are there any upcoming projects or future goals you’d like to share with your audience? What can they look forward to from you in the future? This is definitely NOT my first book. It’s only the beginning.
“Follow me” for more 🙂 on @lu_authors I do share different pieces.
